Whiney Wednesday

I don't normally like to be a "whiner" or share too many thoughts, but I've had something on my mind lately, and I felt the need to share it. I've always considered myself a friendly person, and I've always been blessed with an abundance of friends. Throughout the years though, my definition of "friend" has changed.... A LOT! I can count on one hand the number people I can truly call my "friend". I've had a lot of people come into my life for various reasons and prove themselves to not be a friend, and then I have to have them make a quick exit...I don't need those kinds of people in my life. And to beat it all, all of those people were girls!!!! Ugh! It is nearly impossible to be able to trust a girl nowadays! They all lie, scheme, and do things behind your back! My best friend and I were having a conversation not too long ago about how "catty" girls can be (and yes, I am a girl and I can be catty to a point, I'll admit it) but I like to think that I am an honest, loyal friend and that I know how to treat people with the respect that they deserve! Most of the people that we associate with, besides the few girls I put in my "best friends" group, are guys! Guys are not dramatic, they don't care enough about other people's business enough to talk about it, and they are always pretty loyal, depending on the person. It's always kind of bothered me that I get along with guys more than girls, but then again, it doesn't really matter. A friend is someone who will listen to you, cry with you, laugh with you, keep your secrets, and not judge you! Besides my mama and my sister, I have 3 girls in my life that I consider "true" friends, and that is more than enough for me. I'd rather have a few really good, true friends than a bunch of fake and phony friends! :)